Neither of us want kids. That's one appealing thing which is rare
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Dating girls who still date after having sex.
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Neither of us want kids. That's one appealing thing which is rare
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I totally agree about the paradox. If she feels comfortable and safe but wants to date, then I going to fill my schedule with others. Maybe she change that tune. Even if she does that was her decision before and just see if I can keep it as a lay for a little while.
Don't believe it. Why would she tell you this if you didn't ask? Either for sympathy or to be a victim.
After 7 months of meeting guys, making plans and dating, she finally found you, someone she can connect with and feel safe enough with to have sex. Yet, she is still dating a little. Isn't that a paradox? Why is she looking to date more people if she completely and utterly and soulessly gave her body to you?
Exactly bro. So either she is completely lying or isn't telling the truth.
My response would be 'Honey, you are FORTY year old woman. Unless you are an Accoutant, Doctor, Lawyer, Scientist, or Engineer, any thinking you do is not relevant to society. And since you probably can't get pregnant your value is close to 0. But I'd still like to have sex with you.'
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yes, it HAS to be a lay. If it's not a lay that's not good, because you might be the guy she calls when she wants dinner or a nice date and she calls other guy to lay the pipe.
This is what I have concluded. I will play the field for fun and not really give a ****.
She is gone cold and I may venture back in town and not even tell her but maybe let her figure out on FB or something. If she is not thinking about curious when I am coming back then Im not wasting my time.
If I'm laying it to her she is not going to any any others. If it did stop then I bolt anyway after leaving her a upper decker lol jk
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
After 4 dates and only a week? Then I leave town for 3 weeks?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
How most but not all women are... If you are hitting it often like 3-5 times a week, she likely won't take on any additional d1ck. If she does it will be very occasional, but she won't have two guys in there going 3-5 times a week.
I will know if she does. She is fairly busy and goes to bed early most nights. If it's no date on Saturday and no text then that will be the sign