Lozboss
Master Don Juan
This is a sh*t post Attackformation. Have some respect and apologize.
It takes BALLS to admit our defeats and grow from them. It takes a lot to admit weakness on here.
Respect Deesade.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dating... a woman's game
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It takes BALLS to admit our defeats and grow from them. It takes a lot to admit weakness on here.
Respect Deesade.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
I've stalked a girl for years when I was much younger. I've frozen up and been unable to speak properly to a girl I approached. I've been utterly rejected in public by someone I thought would at least greet me, probably because my social personality was a complete wreck at the time. I've failed to act on more opportunities than I have hairs on my head. I've treated women like delicate flowers. I learned from that to view being beta as pathetic, including what I myself have done and what my personality was. If you can't view your past self like that then you still identify with it. Deesade today is not the beta I was insulting in my post.
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