"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dating... a woman's game

Lozboss

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lol... dominated by a woman, pathetic...
This is a sh*t post Attackformation. Have some respect and apologize.

It takes BALLS to admit our defeats and grow from them. It takes a lot to admit weakness on here.

Respect Deesade.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AttackFormation

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This is a sh*t post Attackformation. Have some respect and apologize.

It takes BALLS to admit our defeats and grow from them. It takes a lot to admit weakness on here.

Respect Deesade.
I've stalked a girl for years when I was much younger. I've frozen up and been unable to speak properly to a girl I approached. I've been utterly rejected in public by someone I thought would at least greet me, probably because my social personality was a complete wreck at the time. I've failed to act on more opportunities than I have hairs on my head. I've treated women like delicate flowers. I learned from that to view being beta as pathetic, including what I myself have done and what my personality was. If you can't view your past self like that then you still identify with it. Deesade today is not the beta I was insulting in my post.
 
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