we all eat food
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okay so i got gf right, so now i wanna go out ona date with her, how do i do this
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
date with my gf
- Thread starter we all eat food
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
Ummm, boy this is a tough one!!
Umm, I think maybe you should uhhhh....
ASK HER OUT!
Umm, I think maybe you should uhhhh....
ASK HER OUT!
we all eat food
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how do you do that, and should i do it tommoroow since it will be thursday
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Normally I'd say something like, "Dude, chill out. That kind of comment doesn't make for a happy forum," but in all seriousness, you're quite right. This guy really is an idiot.LikRetsam said:
we all eat food
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i just have poor social skills
AC/DC
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We all want to know how you got a girlfriend.we all eat food said:
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Couldn't have said it better myself.AC/DC said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
shydude
Master Don Juan
Lmao!!!! OK asking her out is really not hard!! There are 2 things that can happned!! Rejection, BUll****! and agremment!! She might lie, like saying Ohh man I am always busy!! to me thats bull, and she doesnt have enought balls to tell u the truth... I hate when girls start to lie!! OMG girls!! just tell us the truth