we all eat food
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okay so i got gf right, so now i wanna go out ona date with her, how do i do this
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
date with my gf
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
Ummm, boy this is a tough one!!
Umm, I think maybe you should uhhhh....
ASK HER OUT!
Umm, I think maybe you should uhhhh....
ASK HER OUT!
we all eat food
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how do you do that, and should i do it tommoroow since it will be thursday
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Normally I'd say something like, "Dude, chill out. That kind of comment doesn't make for a happy forum," but in all seriousness, you're quite right. This guy really is an idiot.LikRetsam said:
we all eat food
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i just have poor social skills
AC/DC
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We all want to know how you got a girlfriend.we all eat food said:
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Couldn't have said it better myself.AC/DC said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
shydude
Master Don Juan
Lmao!!!! OK asking her out is really not hard!! There are 2 things that can happned!! Rejection, BUll****! and agremment!! She might lie, like saying Ohh man I am always busy!! to me thats bull, and she doesnt have enought balls to tell u the truth... I hate when girls start to lie!! OMG girls!! just tell us the truth