we all eat food
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okay so i got gf right, so now i wanna go out ona date with her, how do i do this
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
date with my gf
- Thread starter we all eat food
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
Ummm, boy this is a tough one!!
Umm, I think maybe you should uhhhh....
ASK HER OUT!
Umm, I think maybe you should uhhhh....
ASK HER OUT!
we all eat food
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how do you do that, and should i do it tommoroow since it will be thursday
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Normally I'd say something like, "Dude, chill out. That kind of comment doesn't make for a happy forum," but in all seriousness, you're quite right. This guy really is an idiot.LikRetsam said:
we all eat food
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i just have poor social skills
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
We all want to know how you got a girlfriend.we all eat food said:
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Couldn't have said it better myself.AC/DC said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
shydude
Master Don Juan
Lmao!!!! OK asking her out is really not hard!! There are 2 things that can happned!! Rejection, BUll****! and agremment!! She might lie, like saying Ohh man I am always busy!! to me thats bull, and she doesnt have enought balls to tell u the truth... I hate when girls start to lie!! OMG girls!! just tell us the truth