"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Went out yesterday, got a couple dances and was able to get a number.

Texted her up today, got rejected.

Went out today, got pretty drunk.

Attempted to game some women. Got rejected twice.

Felt ****ty, but got back on my feet.

Attempted again. Got rejected four more times.

Got demoralized and went home.

Tomorrow will be a better day hopefully... :eek:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PapiChulo

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Great. You took it like a man.
 

Crazy Asian

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did you learn anything?
many guys approach aimlessly and improve super slow.
don't be conscious of it while you're approaching, but make sure you reflect on it afterwards.
good luck man! balls to the wall.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Don't be drinking too much, This is definitely a turn-off for the ladies.
 

coochieman

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Glad you're light hearted bout it! You win!!

Reflect on you mistakes, don't dwell on them.

Don't stop till you start enjoying rejection.... Then, don't stop till you tired of women disturbing you all the time.

You probably get so confident that you'd wanna try absolutely stupid or funny techniques that you've seen, heard or read. That's true learning.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Packers2010

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you sir are getting out there and that is the main point.

me.. all i do all day is stay up in this house and do nothing but read game, fap and try work out a fitness plan i am going to study
 

Fly By Night

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Thanks guys, I was able to catch this one chick I met about a week ago and she said that we could meet up tuesday. It's not guaranteed but it's something.

It's amazing how even if you get completely shut down one day you could always dust yourself off (chill for the rest of the day) and try again (get back out there another day).

No negative thoughts allowed here.
 
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