"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Damn Dude

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Went out yesterday, got a couple dances and was able to get a number.

Texted her up today, got rejected.

Went out today, got pretty drunk.

Attempted to game some women. Got rejected twice.

Felt ****ty, but got back on my feet.

Attempted again. Got rejected four more times.

Got demoralized and went home.

Tomorrow will be a better day hopefully... :eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PapiChulo

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Great. You took it like a man.
 

Crazy Asian

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did you learn anything?
many guys approach aimlessly and improve super slow.
don't be conscious of it while you're approaching, but make sure you reflect on it afterwards.
good luck man! balls to the wall.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Don't be drinking too much, This is definitely a turn-off for the ladies.
 

coochieman

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Glad you're light hearted bout it! You win!!

Reflect on you mistakes, don't dwell on them.

Don't stop till you start enjoying rejection.... Then, don't stop till you tired of women disturbing you all the time.

You probably get so confident that you'd wanna try absolutely stupid or funny techniques that you've seen, heard or read. That's true learning.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Packers2010

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you sir are getting out there and that is the main point.

me.. all i do all day is stay up in this house and do nothing but read game, fap and try work out a fitness plan i am going to study
 

Fly By Night

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Thanks guys, I was able to catch this one chick I met about a week ago and she said that we could meet up tuesday. It's not guaranteed but it's something.

It's amazing how even if you get completely shut down one day you could always dust yourself off (chill for the rest of the day) and try again (get back out there another day).

No negative thoughts allowed here.
 
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