"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Damn Dude

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Went out yesterday, got a couple dances and was able to get a number.

Texted her up today, got rejected.

Went out today, got pretty drunk.

Attempted to game some women. Got rejected twice.

Felt ****ty, but got back on my feet.

Attempted again. Got rejected four more times.

Got demoralized and went home.

Tomorrow will be a better day hopefully... :eek:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PapiChulo

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Great. You took it like a man.
 

Crazy Asian

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did you learn anything?
many guys approach aimlessly and improve super slow.
don't be conscious of it while you're approaching, but make sure you reflect on it afterwards.
good luck man! balls to the wall.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Don't be drinking too much, This is definitely a turn-off for the ladies.
 

coochieman

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Glad you're light hearted bout it! You win!!

Reflect on you mistakes, don't dwell on them.

Don't stop till you start enjoying rejection.... Then, don't stop till you tired of women disturbing you all the time.

You probably get so confident that you'd wanna try absolutely stupid or funny techniques that you've seen, heard or read. That's true learning.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Packers2010

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you sir are getting out there and that is the main point.

me.. all i do all day is stay up in this house and do nothing but read game, fap and try work out a fitness plan i am going to study
 

Fly By Night

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Thanks guys, I was able to catch this one chick I met about a week ago and she said that we could meet up tuesday. It's not guaranteed but it's something.

It's amazing how even if you get completely shut down one day you could always dust yourself off (chill for the rest of the day) and try again (get back out there another day).

No negative thoughts allowed here.
 
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