"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Damn Dude

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Went out yesterday, got a couple dances and was able to get a number.

Texted her up today, got rejected.

Went out today, got pretty drunk.

Attempted to game some women. Got rejected twice.

Felt ****ty, but got back on my feet.

Attempted again. Got rejected four more times.

Got demoralized and went home.

Tomorrow will be a better day hopefully... :eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PapiChulo

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Great. You took it like a man.
 

Crazy Asian

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did you learn anything?
many guys approach aimlessly and improve super slow.
don't be conscious of it while you're approaching, but make sure you reflect on it afterwards.
good luck man! balls to the wall.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Don't be drinking too much, This is definitely a turn-off for the ladies.
 

coochieman

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Glad you're light hearted bout it! You win!!

Reflect on you mistakes, don't dwell on them.

Don't stop till you start enjoying rejection.... Then, don't stop till you tired of women disturbing you all the time.

You probably get so confident that you'd wanna try absolutely stupid or funny techniques that you've seen, heard or read. That's true learning.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Packers2010

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you sir are getting out there and that is the main point.

me.. all i do all day is stay up in this house and do nothing but read game, fap and try work out a fitness plan i am going to study
 

Fly By Night

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Thanks guys, I was able to catch this one chick I met about a week ago and she said that we could meet up tuesday. It's not guaranteed but it's something.

It's amazing how even if you get completely shut down one day you could always dust yourself off (chill for the rest of the day) and try again (get back out there another day).

No negative thoughts allowed here.
 
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