"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Damn Dude

Fly By Night

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Went out yesterday, got a couple dances and was able to get a number.

Texted her up today, got rejected.

Went out today, got pretty drunk.

Attempted to game some women. Got rejected twice.

Felt ****ty, but got back on my feet.

Attempted again. Got rejected four more times.

Got demoralized and went home.

Tomorrow will be a better day hopefully... :eek:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PapiChulo

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Great. You took it like a man.
 

Crazy Asian

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did you learn anything?
many guys approach aimlessly and improve super slow.
don't be conscious of it while you're approaching, but make sure you reflect on it afterwards.
good luck man! balls to the wall.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Don't be drinking too much, This is definitely a turn-off for the ladies.
 

coochieman

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Glad you're light hearted bout it! You win!!

Reflect on you mistakes, don't dwell on them.

Don't stop till you start enjoying rejection.... Then, don't stop till you tired of women disturbing you all the time.

You probably get so confident that you'd wanna try absolutely stupid or funny techniques that you've seen, heard or read. That's true learning.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Packers2010

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you sir are getting out there and that is the main point.

me.. all i do all day is stay up in this house and do nothing but read game, fap and try work out a fitness plan i am going to study
 

Fly By Night

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Thanks guys, I was able to catch this one chick I met about a week ago and she said that we could meet up tuesday. It's not guaranteed but it's something.

It's amazing how even if you get completely shut down one day you could always dust yourself off (chill for the rest of the day) and try again (get back out there another day).

No negative thoughts allowed here.
 
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