“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Currently working on my clothes; this shirt, yay or nay?

Shivastorm_88

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I've recently decided to stop dressing like a little kid with graphic tees and wear nicer clothes (polos, dress shirts, nicer fitting pants, etc.).

So I found this old dress shirt in my closest, but I'm a bit iffy about it, so I need opinions (mind you, I wouldn't normally be wearing capri with it)

I have lighter skin, as well as blue eyes

P.S. No it's not my room :D


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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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its ok but chequered shirts went out of fashion last summer also you seem to have a wierd body shape which makes u look round around the waiste
 

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A black and white checkered shirt is good with jeans, but you need a much smaller checker pattern. The pattern is too large on that shirt.

I would say smaller pattern checker shirt with jeans if you want to rock that look.
 
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scribblec said:
its ok but chequered shirts went out of fashion last summer also you seem to have a wierd body shape which makes u look round around the waiste
Heh I do have a weird shape on that picture, but it's due to the angle of the shot, that would be an odd deformity o_O

Anyways I guess this shirt is a negative
 

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Personally, not a fan of the shirt. Looks dated and sloppy.

I'm picky when it comes to clothes. To the point a lot of my guy friends call me a woman, but whatever. I like what I like. 90% of button-downs that I see, I absolutely hate. There are so few generic brand button-downs that I think look good, fit right, and last over time. So, it's possible I'm being my normal picky self, and it doesn't matter to you as much. But I'm taking the fact that you are changing your wardrobe, and created a thread about this shirt to mean that it does matter to you.

I would recommend getting a more updated style, and look for Fitted cut. That will solve the issue scribblec mentioned.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Amazing how the ad I'm looking at on this page is for similar checkered shirts.

Google knows all...
 

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Don't do it. It looks like a tablecloth.
 

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hideous shirt. please trash it or give it away.

aim for slim fitted shirts.
 

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wow that shirt looks like an optical illusion, it makes me dizzy looking at it.

thats not hte point though. checkered shirts arent bad at all. dont use this one.. get one that has a more uniform pattern, SLIM FITTING, and try mixing it up by wearing it over a plain white t or something like that. and roll up the sleeves
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have to agree with my fellow djs, lose the shirt playboy
 

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Go to Marshalls/Tj maxx. Grab 5-6 nautica/ralph lauren polo shirts. No gay patterns just solid colors. Nothing loud like turquoise or anything. 35-40$ a.piece. Dry clean them every 2nd wear, never wash. Hang them up never in dresser.
They will last for years, literally.
Go to oldnavy store/website order 2-3 pair of cargo shorts.
Go to nordstroms rack and grab 2 pair of sperry loafers the suede kind. Not the ugly rubbery ones.

Get 2 nice pair of jeans. I mean nice 200$ true religions/s7even/Rockin Republic.
Obviously never wash them. Dry clean without the creases.

Grab a 30$ pack of ralph lauren v neck ts. This you will have to buy often. Try to keep once on stand by. If you get white ones its one wear and done, coloref ones you can get a few wears out of.

Keep your shoes in mint condition. Its the first thing they look at. You do this by having 10-15 pairs and never wearing the same ones in a week. Start with 2 and add on every payday. It doesn't have to be real expensive shoes but have a lot. She should see a different sure / outfit every day. I don't wear suits they are hot and gay. I do slacks with shirt and tie but if you really want a suite go for it.

Get a nice watch thats real. 200 bucks at pawn shop will get you something decent. Go gold.
Keep your hair neat. Finger nails clean.

This sounds like a lot but its done over time. Buy a thing or 2 when you can.
Don't wear your good stuff to go hang with your boys, you will dog it. Wear something chill with them. Save the new stuff for dates.

And no outfit is complete without the right cologne.

Detailed but I hope it helps.
 

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cola said:
Go to Marshalls/Tj maxx. Grab 5-6 nautica/ralph lauren polo shirts. No gay patterns just solid colors. Nothing loud like turquoise or anything. 35-40$ a.piece. Dry clean them every 2nd wear, never wash. Hang them up never in dresser.
They will last for years, literally.
Go to oldnavy store/website order 2-3 pair of cargo shorts.
Go to nordstroms rack and grab 2 pair of sperry loafers the suede kind. Not the ugly rubbery ones.

Get 2 nice pair of jeans. I mean nice 200$ true religions/s7even/Rockin Republic.
Obviously never wash them. Dry clean without the creases.

Grab a 30$ pack of ralph lauren v neck ts. This you will have to buy often. Try to keep once on stand by. If you get white ones its one wear and done, coloref ones you can get a few wears out of.

Keep your shoes in mint condition. Its the first thing they look at. You do this by having 10-15 pairs and never wearing the same ones in a week. Start with 2 and add on every payday. It doesn't have to be real expensive shoes but have a lot. She should see a different sure / outfit every day. I don't wear suits they are hot and gay. I do slacks with shirt and tie but if you really want a suite go for it.

Get a nice watch thats real. 200 bucks at pawn shop will get you something decent. Go gold.
Keep your hair neat. Finger nails clean.

This sounds like a lot but its done over time. Buy a thing or 2 when you can.
Don't wear your good stuff to go hang with your boys, you will dog it. Wear something chill with them. Save the new stuff for dates.

And no outfit is complete without the right cologne.

Detailed but I hope it helps.

solid advice
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've standardized my button downs to the fitted cut shirts from Express. They come in lots of colors and patterns, and can be bought for cheap on eBay ($20 vs. $60 retail). Don't have to think about that sh*t anymore.
 
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