"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Currently working on my clothes; this shirt, yay or nay?

Shivastorm_88

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I've recently decided to stop dressing like a little kid with graphic tees and wear nicer clothes (polos, dress shirts, nicer fitting pants, etc.).

So I found this old dress shirt in my closest, but I'm a bit iffy about it, so I need opinions (mind you, I wouldn't normally be wearing capri with it)

I have lighter skin, as well as blue eyes

P.S. No it's not my room :D


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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its ok but chequered shirts went out of fashion last summer also you seem to have a wierd body shape which makes u look round around the waiste
 

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A black and white checkered shirt is good with jeans, but you need a much smaller checker pattern. The pattern is too large on that shirt.

I would say smaller pattern checker shirt with jeans if you want to rock that look.
 
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Shivastorm_88

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scribblec said:
its ok but chequered shirts went out of fashion last summer also you seem to have a wierd body shape which makes u look round around the waiste
Heh I do have a weird shape on that picture, but it's due to the angle of the shot, that would be an odd deformity o_O

Anyways I guess this shirt is a negative
 

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Personally, not a fan of the shirt. Looks dated and sloppy.

I'm picky when it comes to clothes. To the point a lot of my guy friends call me a woman, but whatever. I like what I like. 90% of button-downs that I see, I absolutely hate. There are so few generic brand button-downs that I think look good, fit right, and last over time. So, it's possible I'm being my normal picky self, and it doesn't matter to you as much. But I'm taking the fact that you are changing your wardrobe, and created a thread about this shirt to mean that it does matter to you.

I would recommend getting a more updated style, and look for Fitted cut. That will solve the issue scribblec mentioned.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Amazing how the ad I'm looking at on this page is for similar checkered shirts.

Google knows all...
 

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Don't do it. It looks like a tablecloth.
 

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hideous shirt. please trash it or give it away.

aim for slim fitted shirts.
 

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wow that shirt looks like an optical illusion, it makes me dizzy looking at it.

thats not hte point though. checkered shirts arent bad at all. dont use this one.. get one that has a more uniform pattern, SLIM FITTING, and try mixing it up by wearing it over a plain white t or something like that. and roll up the sleeves
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have to agree with my fellow djs, lose the shirt playboy
 

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Go to Marshalls/Tj maxx. Grab 5-6 nautica/ralph lauren polo shirts. No gay patterns just solid colors. Nothing loud like turquoise or anything. 35-40$ a.piece. Dry clean them every 2nd wear, never wash. Hang them up never in dresser.
They will last for years, literally.
Go to oldnavy store/website order 2-3 pair of cargo shorts.
Go to nordstroms rack and grab 2 pair of sperry loafers the suede kind. Not the ugly rubbery ones.

Get 2 nice pair of jeans. I mean nice 200$ true religions/s7even/Rockin Republic.
Obviously never wash them. Dry clean without the creases.

Grab a 30$ pack of ralph lauren v neck ts. This you will have to buy often. Try to keep once on stand by. If you get white ones its one wear and done, coloref ones you can get a few wears out of.

Keep your shoes in mint condition. Its the first thing they look at. You do this by having 10-15 pairs and never wearing the same ones in a week. Start with 2 and add on every payday. It doesn't have to be real expensive shoes but have a lot. She should see a different sure / outfit every day. I don't wear suits they are hot and gay. I do slacks with shirt and tie but if you really want a suite go for it.

Get a nice watch thats real. 200 bucks at pawn shop will get you something decent. Go gold.
Keep your hair neat. Finger nails clean.

This sounds like a lot but its done over time. Buy a thing or 2 when you can.
Don't wear your good stuff to go hang with your boys, you will dog it. Wear something chill with them. Save the new stuff for dates.

And no outfit is complete without the right cologne.

Detailed but I hope it helps.
 

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cola said:
Go to Marshalls/Tj maxx. Grab 5-6 nautica/ralph lauren polo shirts. No gay patterns just solid colors. Nothing loud like turquoise or anything. 35-40$ a.piece. Dry clean them every 2nd wear, never wash. Hang them up never in dresser.
They will last for years, literally.
Go to oldnavy store/website order 2-3 pair of cargo shorts.
Go to nordstroms rack and grab 2 pair of sperry loafers the suede kind. Not the ugly rubbery ones.

Get 2 nice pair of jeans. I mean nice 200$ true religions/s7even/Rockin Republic.
Obviously never wash them. Dry clean without the creases.

Grab a 30$ pack of ralph lauren v neck ts. This you will have to buy often. Try to keep once on stand by. If you get white ones its one wear and done, coloref ones you can get a few wears out of.

Keep your shoes in mint condition. Its the first thing they look at. You do this by having 10-15 pairs and never wearing the same ones in a week. Start with 2 and add on every payday. It doesn't have to be real expensive shoes but have a lot. She should see a different sure / outfit every day. I don't wear suits they are hot and gay. I do slacks with shirt and tie but if you really want a suite go for it.

Get a nice watch thats real. 200 bucks at pawn shop will get you something decent. Go gold.
Keep your hair neat. Finger nails clean.

This sounds like a lot but its done over time. Buy a thing or 2 when you can.
Don't wear your good stuff to go hang with your boys, you will dog it. Wear something chill with them. Save the new stuff for dates.

And no outfit is complete without the right cologne.

Detailed but I hope it helps.

solid advice
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've standardized my button downs to the fitted cut shirts from Express. They come in lots of colors and patterns, and can be bought for cheap on eBay ($20 vs. $60 retail). Don't have to think about that sh*t anymore.
 
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