BeTheChange
Master Don Juan
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What do you guys think of the Bankera ICO?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How would this work in practice?Anyone tempted to put a leveraged position into bitcoin using cfd?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yes bro. Great idea. I was meaning to write a detailed response to your PM over the weekend to discuss mechanics, strategy, etc. We will hopefully be able to talk later in the week about that.Guys, welcome to September. Is going to be a great month for me and hopefully you as well. LTC price is soaring. LTC is what I dollar cost average into. I put about a thousand into it a month. It almost hit 100$ a couple days ago and it'll hit 100$ by January.
I'm focused on 4 ICO this month. Kyber, ChainLink, Red Pulse, and Enigma. The tech behind all four are very promising and I like them for the long term. Realistically I'll be flipping them and and then re-enter once correction hits.
We will see how my strategy works but I don't think I can lose.
@BeTheChange let me know if you want to pool some money together and whale up on these icos upcoming. To me it's guaranteed flips and I don't plan on HODL any of them really unless they just 10x off the rip (similar to Populous). I'll HODL my top 50 coins that are proven and I'm sure they'll go up for the long term.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Red Pulse made an official statement on their reddit page about it. Shouldn't have a major impact given Chinese citizens are already prohibited from investing.It's great. It brought a short bear market and now everything is undervalued. I mean everythig currently is undervalued.
I don't think you could go wrong if you bought anything to be honest. Red Pulse cap is 15 million and individual limits are 50k. We will get a 30% bonus on first day. This ico will sell out in the first hour.
Also because the Chinese are banned from participating they will be hawking it down on the Exchange for an easy 2x.
To be honest I don't think they'll last long term but I'm bullish on purchasing my RPX and flipping it for a good 3-5x.
Chainlink and Redpulse. The rest I want to throw into OMG if it gets low enough.I'll probably be investing close to 10k into red pulse. Going to flip that so quick and hopefully put it in Kyber. That is assuming I can make it in the crowdsale.
What ICO's do you plan on investing in?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.