"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Critique my approach at A&F
- Thread starter ChrizZ
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
NOChrizZ said:
I like the, "i never bothered to ask"... I know You saw the video
Talking slow with pauses... gets really good responses and dramatic moments
You actually might be surprised when you call her because, she might not even seem interested,,,,
call her and re-game her on the phone..
I personally stopped MM ...
but when I used to do it , I would re build rapport with her on the phone first, DHV material, and Interesting openers...
then I would Ask her to join me But deff not MCdonalds..
ask her to tag along for something to eat thats it...
:rock:
the problem is I can't take her to myplace and I can't drive. How should I regame her on the phone? Oh and should I rather take her to a bar?Slick101 said:NO
I like the, "i never bothered to ask"... I know You saw the video
Talking slow with pauses... gets really good responses and dramatic moments
You actually might be surprised when you call her because, she might not even seem interested,,,,
call her and re-game her on the phone..
I personally stopped MM ...
but when I used to do it , I would re build rapport with her on the phone first, DHV material, and Interesting openers...
then I would Ask her to join me But deff not MCdonalds..
ask her to tag along for something to eat thats it...
:rock:
ps: why did u stop using MM?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Same day? LOL...ChrizZ said:
If Your game is THAT tight LOL... plus if theyr sluts.. LOL..
its not gonna work...
Re game her on the phone meaning talk to her.... tell her DHV personal stories then she'll start telling you stories...
Connect with her using the same respones LIke ME 2!!!!
I stopped MM Cuz It actually was hurting me when I approached gorgeous woman..
Im a good looking guy as I would say and I like to use Direct Style that matches my personality and looks...
I like Bad Boys Method I suceed with 10's Directly
I called her and roflmao, she acted like she was receiving signals from outter space.
her: "hello?"
me: "Hi, it's me, ChrizZ your favorite customer. What r u doing right now?"
her: "Who? Emm, I'm hanging out with some friends of mine at my house."
me: "Hey, I'm going to a bar tonight, do u wanna tag along?"
her: "Ehmm.... I got a boyfriend, I'm not interested"
me: "Oh, ok.... well it was good talking to ya"
ROFLMAO that was the most awkward conversation I ever had in my life.
lol I will go to Abercrombie tomorrow and infront of everyone I'll be like: "Hey Cindy, could u please stop calling me. I officially break up with you."
I'll do that just for kicks. Although I got rejected big time I had a laugh over it with my golfing buddies. Tomorrow I'm going to a party. More FRs coming soon!
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
It's successful in a way that u gain experience and figure out what works and what doesn't. Obviously u r right, u should never hit on girls while they're working.zerocelcius said:
I'll just try my best to become wealthy so that I can get escorts lol
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i knew You would do this :yes:ChrizZ said:
You could have actually had a chance with her if You builded rapport first, not go directly to business :woo:
Learn from the mistakes, I think thats the best advice :yes:
he meant building rapport before you even got the #. another thing to do is instead of getting the phone # set the date up in person.ChrizZ said:
"hey you seem like you're fun, im going to a party in ______ saturday night and meeting a bunch of friends there, you should come with me"
if you want to be funny send her a text message "hey that was smooth pretending like you're not interested because your boyfriend was there, so when do you want to go out?"
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Exactly right, Bman had a good point too...ChrizZ said:
Set up a date as soon as You meet them... this way she can be looking forward to it and remember you.. from any other guy that approached her before (or approaches her)
As a next rule,,, remember to get the number after 15 min of talking to her and remember the IOI's...I mean thats what MM is about
No! I mean I'm done with all these PU tactics and all that BS. From now on I will straight up tell ANY person what I think of them without apologizing. Goddamit, I now know why I never got any pu$$y. It was because I never asked for it and beat around the bush all the time...Slick101 said:
I'm a man of value, trapped in a cage full of fear and social conditioning. To be free, I need to break out of that cage!