"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Critique my approach at A&F
- Thread starter ChrizZ
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
NOChrizZ said:
I like the, "i never bothered to ask"... I know You saw the video
Talking slow with pauses... gets really good responses and dramatic moments
You actually might be surprised when you call her because, she might not even seem interested,,,,
call her and re-game her on the phone..
I personally stopped MM ...
but when I used to do it , I would re build rapport with her on the phone first, DHV material, and Interesting openers...
then I would Ask her to join me But deff not MCdonalds..
ask her to tag along for something to eat thats it...
:rock:
the problem is I can't take her to myplace and I can't drive. How should I regame her on the phone? Oh and should I rather take her to a bar?Slick101 said:NO
I like the, "i never bothered to ask"... I know You saw the video
Talking slow with pauses... gets really good responses and dramatic moments
You actually might be surprised when you call her because, she might not even seem interested,,,,
call her and re-game her on the phone..
I personally stopped MM ...
but when I used to do it , I would re build rapport with her on the phone first, DHV material, and Interesting openers...
then I would Ask her to join me But deff not MCdonalds..
ask her to tag along for something to eat thats it...
:rock:
ps: why did u stop using MM?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Same day? LOL...ChrizZ said:
If Your game is THAT tight LOL... plus if theyr sluts.. LOL..
its not gonna work...
Re game her on the phone meaning talk to her.... tell her DHV personal stories then she'll start telling you stories...
Connect with her using the same respones LIke ME 2!!!!
I stopped MM Cuz It actually was hurting me when I approached gorgeous woman..
Im a good looking guy as I would say and I like to use Direct Style that matches my personality and looks...
I like Bad Boys Method I suceed with 10's Directly
I called her and roflmao, she acted like she was receiving signals from outter space.
her: "hello?"
me: "Hi, it's me, ChrizZ your favorite customer. What r u doing right now?"
her: "Who? Emm, I'm hanging out with some friends of mine at my house."
me: "Hey, I'm going to a bar tonight, do u wanna tag along?"
her: "Ehmm.... I got a boyfriend, I'm not interested"
me: "Oh, ok.... well it was good talking to ya"
ROFLMAO that was the most awkward conversation I ever had in my life.
lol I will go to Abercrombie tomorrow and infront of everyone I'll be like: "Hey Cindy, could u please stop calling me. I officially break up with you."
I'll do that just for kicks. Although I got rejected big time I had a laugh over it with my golfing buddies. Tomorrow I'm going to a party. More FRs coming soon!
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
It's successful in a way that u gain experience and figure out what works and what doesn't. Obviously u r right, u should never hit on girls while they're working.zerocelcius said:
I'll just try my best to become wealthy so that I can get escorts lol
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i knew You would do this :yes:ChrizZ said:
You could have actually had a chance with her if You builded rapport first, not go directly to business :woo:
Learn from the mistakes, I think thats the best advice :yes:
he meant building rapport before you even got the #. another thing to do is instead of getting the phone # set the date up in person.ChrizZ said:
"hey you seem like you're fun, im going to a party in ______ saturday night and meeting a bunch of friends there, you should come with me"
if you want to be funny send her a text message "hey that was smooth pretending like you're not interested because your boyfriend was there, so when do you want to go out?"
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Exactly right, Bman had a good point too...ChrizZ said:
Set up a date as soon as You meet them... this way she can be looking forward to it and remember you.. from any other guy that approached her before (or approaches her)
As a next rule,,, remember to get the number after 15 min of talking to her and remember the IOI's...I mean thats what MM is about
No! I mean I'm done with all these PU tactics and all that BS. From now on I will straight up tell ANY person what I think of them without apologizing. Goddamit, I now know why I never got any pu$$y. It was because I never asked for it and beat around the bush all the time...Slick101 said:
I'm a man of value, trapped in a cage full of fear and social conditioning. To be free, I need to break out of that cage!