She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NOChrizZ said:Okay, I'm gonna call her today. I'll be like:
"Hey, it's ChrizZ, your favorite customer. I'll keep this short and sweet. I'm going to McDonalds for lunch now. I'd like u to join me."
good idea?
the problem is I can't take her to myplace and I can't drive. How should I regame her on the phone? Oh and should I rather take her to a bar?Slick101 said:NO
I like the, "i never bothered to ask"... I know You saw the video![]()
Talking slow with pauses... gets really good responses and dramatic moments![]()
You actually might be surprised when you call her because, she might not even seem interested,,,,
call her and re-game her on the phone..
I personally stopped MM ...
but when I used to do it , I would re build rapport with her on the phone first, DHV material, and Interesting openers...
then I would Ask her to join me But deff not MCdonalds..
ask her to tag along for something to eat thats it...
:rock:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Same day? LOL...ChrizZ said:I don't think I'll go for a number close next time. I'll just try to bang the chicks the same day I meet them.
I'm off sarging now.
It's successful in a way that u gain experience and figure out what works and what doesn't. Obviously u r right, u should never hit on girls while they're working.zerocelcius said:How many of you think that hitting on girls when they are working is successful?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
i knew You would do this :yes:ChrizZ said:update:
I called her and roflmao, she acted like she was receiving signals from outter space.
her: "hello?"
me: "Hi, it's me, ChrizZ your favorite customer. What r u doing right now?"
her: "Who? Emm, I'm hanging out with some friends of mine at my house."
me: "Hey, I'm going to a bar tonight, do u wanna tag along?"
her: "Ehmm.... I got a boyfriend, I'm not interested"
me: "Oh, ok.... well it was good talking to ya"
ROFLMAO that was the most awkward conversation I ever had in my life.
lol I will go to Abercrombie tomorrow and infront of everyone I'll be like: "Hey Cindy, could u please stop calling me. I officially break up with you."
I'll do that just for kicks. Although I got rejected big time I had a laugh over it with my golfing buddies. Tomorrow I'm going to a party. More FRs coming soon!
nah, she was totally creeped out and disinterested from the beginning of the phone call...Slick101 said:i knew You would do this :yes:
You could have actually had a chance with her if You builded rapport first, not go directly to business :woo:
Learn from the mistakes, I think thats the best advice :yes:
he meant building rapport before you even got the #. another thing to do is instead of getting the phone # set the date up in person.ChrizZ said:nah, she was totally creeped out and disinterested from the beginning of the phone call...
U know what, I'm sick of all this BS. The next time I hit on a girl I make my intentions clear. PERIOD.bman said:he meant building rapport before you even got the #. another thing to do is instead of getting the phone # set the date up in person.
"hey you seem like you're fun, im going to a party in ______ saturday night and meeting a bunch of friends there, you should come with me"
if you want to be funny send her a text message "hey that was smooth pretending like you're not interested because your boyfriend was there, so when do you want to go out?"
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Exactly right, Bman had a good point too...ChrizZ said:U know what, I'm sick of all this BS. The next time I hit on a girl I make my intentions clear. PERIOD.
No! I mean I'm done with all these PU tactics and all that BS. From now on I will straight up tell ANY person what I think of them without apologizing. Goddamit, I now know why I never got any pu$$y. It was because I never asked for it and beat around the bush all the time...Slick101 said:Exactly right, Bman had a good point too...
Set up a date as soon as You meet them... this way she can be looking forward to it and remember you.. from any other guy that approached her before (or approaches her)
As a next rule,,, remember to get the number after 15 min of talking to her and remember the IOI's...I mean thats what MM is about
Sounds like you wanna start using Direct Game...ChrizZ said:No! I mean I'm done with all these PU tactics and all that BS. From now on I will straight up tell ANY person what I think of them without apologizing. Goddamit, I now know why I never got any pu$$y. It was because I never asked for it and beat around the bush all the time...
I'm a man of value, trapped in a cage full of fear and social conditioning. To be free, I need to break out of that cage!
all is fair in love and warChrizZ said:You know, where I'm from we got an old saying...
In war and love anything is allowed![]()