"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Crazy how powerful fame is - Arnolds ugly bastard son has gorgeous gf
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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mrgoodstuff
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I think he was saying he looks like a "normal" guy.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
lol
you would need to look like this to get a girl of that quality online or in any sort of an approach anywhere in real life
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mrgoodstuff
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Thats what you think. Plenty of normal dudes have females like that.
lmfao, yea right
you have a tiny chance if you meet her via natural means (friends/work) and you're around a 7/10
try approaching somebody that hot at a bar or a gym, she will laugh at you unless you're a 10/10.
mrgoodstuff
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I was saying normal looking dudes. They have game.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Male models and strippers will be with a female who is not also a gold digger.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
you think a girl like that is open to being approached at a gym or bar or something by anybody who is not a 10/10, you're smoking crack. Somebody like that is incredibly defensive cause she gets hit on 50 million times a day
you might have a chance if you meet her through a friend or work and get to impress her and you're maybe a 7/10. Anything below a 7 nowadays and you might as well kill yourself
mrgoodstuff
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Omfg. Your on your looks maxxing bull.
seriously, where you gonna approach somebody like that where she is not incredibly defensive??
bars and clubs are impossible, online dating is impossible, what else is there?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Being in their clique. How about be a rapper?
so what I said, magically hoping you meet a beautiful girl through social circle - which is all luck
try approaching that at a bar or gym or store, you got 0% chance unless you're a 10/10
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
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A rapper or musician. They arent male models or even close.
taiyuu_otoko
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don't be this guy:
Man, 27, arrested after allegedly threatening to kill women because he’s a virgin: report
A 27-year-old man was arrested on Saturday in Utah after he allegedly threatened to kill as “many girls” as he sees because he is still a virgin, reports said.
Christopher Wayne Cleary was arrested in the town of Provo. He was allegedly posting the threats on Facebook, Fox 13 reported, citing court documents.
"All I wanted was a girlfriend, not 1000 not a bunch of hoes not money none of that,” he allegedly posted. “All I wanted was to be loved, yet no one cares about me I'm 27 years old and I've never had a girlfriend before and I'm still a virgin, this is why I'm planning on shooting up a public place soon and being the next mass shooter cause I'm ready to die and all the girls the (sic) turned me down is (sic) going to make it right by killing as many girls as I see."
A virgin incel gone off the deep end. The only question I have is how many exist in the wild besides him ?@bigdave17
don't be this guy:
Man, 27, arrested after allegedly threatening to kill women because he’s a virgin: report
A 27-year-old man was arrested on Saturday in Utah after he allegedly threatened to kill as “many girls” as he sees because he is still a virgin, reports said.
Christopher Wayne Cleary was arrested in the town of Provo. He was allegedly posting the threats on Facebook, Fox 13 reported, citing court documents.
"All I wanted was a girlfriend, not 1000 not a bunch of hoes not money none of that,” he allegedly posted. “All I wanted was to be loved, yet no one cares about me I'm 27 years old and I've never had a girlfriend before and I'm still a virgin, this is why I'm planning on shooting up a public place soon and being the next mass shooter cause I'm ready to die and all the girls the (sic) turned me down is (sic) going to make it right by killing as many girls as I see."
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Guys who look like that get other guys of that quality. Dude looks like a gay porn star Dave.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.