"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Crazy how powerful fame is - Arnolds ugly bastard son has gorgeous gf

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who knows what Dave means with his posts.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thats what you think. Plenty of normal dudes have females like that.

lmfao, yea right

you have a tiny chance if you meet her via natural means (friends/work) and you're around a 7/10

try approaching somebody that hot at a bar or a gym, she will laugh at you unless you're a 10/10.
 

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lmfao, yea right

you have a tiny chance if you meet her via natural means (friends/work) and you're around a 7/10

try approaching somebody that hot at a bar or a gym, she will laugh at you unless you're a 10/10.
I was saying normal looking dudes. They have game.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was saying normal looking dudes. They have game.
you think a girl like that is open to being approached at a gym or bar or something by anybody who is not a 10/10, you're smoking crack. Somebody like that is incredibly defensive cause she gets hit on 50 million times a day

you might have a chance if you meet her through a friend or work and get to impress her and you're maybe a 7/10. Anything below a 7 nowadays and you might as well kill yourself
 

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you think a girl like that is open to being approached at a gym or bar or something by anybody who is not a 10/10, you're smoking crack. Somebody like that is incredibly defensive cause she gets hit on 50 million times a day

you might have a chance if you meet her through a friend or work and get to impress her and you're maybe a 7/10. Anything below a 7 nowadays and you might as well kill yourself
Omfg. Your on your looks maxxing bull.
 

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Omfg. Your on your looks maxxing bull.
seriously, where you gonna approach somebody like that where she is not incredibly defensive??

bars and clubs are impossible, online dating is impossible, what else is there?
 

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seriously, where you gonna approach somebody like that where she is not incredibly defensive??

bars and clubs are impossible, online dating is impossible, what else is there?
Being in their clique. How about be a rapper?
 

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Being in their clique. How about be a rapper?
so what I said, magically hoping you meet a beautiful girl through social circle - which is all luck

try approaching that at a bar or gym or store, you got 0% chance unless you're a 10/10
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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so what I said, magically hoping you meet a beautiful girl through social circle - which is all luck

try approaching that at a bar or gym or store, you got 0% chance unless you're a 10/10
A rapper or musician. They arent male models or even close.
 

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don't be this guy:

Man, 27, arrested after allegedly threatening to kill women because he’s a virgin: report

A 27-year-old man was arrested on Saturday in Utah after he allegedly threatened to kill as “many girls” as he sees because he is still a virgin, reports said.

Christopher Wayne Cleary was arrested in the town of Provo. He was allegedly posting the threats on Facebook, Fox 13 reported, citing court documents.

"All I wanted was a girlfriend, not 1000 not a bunch of hoes not money none of that,” he allegedly posted. “All I wanted was to be loved, yet no one cares about me I'm 27 years old and I've never had a girlfriend before and I'm still a virgin, this is why I'm planning on shooting up a public place soon and being the next mass shooter cause I'm ready to die and all the girls the (sic) turned me down is (sic) going to make it right by killing as many girls as I see."



 

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don't be this guy:

Man, 27, arrested after allegedly threatening to kill women because he’s a virgin: report

A 27-year-old man was arrested on Saturday in Utah after he allegedly threatened to kill as “many girls” as he sees because he is still a virgin, reports said.

Christopher Wayne Cleary was arrested in the town of Provo. He was allegedly posting the threats on Facebook, Fox 13 reported, citing court documents.

"All I wanted was a girlfriend, not 1000 not a bunch of hoes not money none of that,” he allegedly posted. “All I wanted was to be loved, yet no one cares about me I'm 27 years old and I've never had a girlfriend before and I'm still a virgin, this is why I'm planning on shooting up a public place soon and being the next mass shooter cause I'm ready to die and all the girls the (sic) turned me down is (sic) going to make it right by killing as many girls as I see."


A virgin incel gone off the deep end. The only question I have is how many exist in the wild besides him ?
 
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lol

you would need to look like this to get a girl of that quality online or in any sort of an approach anywhere in real life
Guys who look like that get other guys of that quality. Dude looks like a gay porn star Dave.
 

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He is not average. He is pretty toned.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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