ariet
Don Juan
So im not confident with kino 
my hand eye coordination kinda sux as well
my hand eye coordination kinda sux as well
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Crap at kino
- Thread starter ariet
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I've made a topic about this aswell so we're in the same boat, have a look at some of the responses it might help you.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=160491
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=160491
To get good at kino, you just have to do it alot, until it becomes second nature to you.
What you shoudl do is practice on female friends of yours who you have little sexual interest in. Just basic things like puting your arm around their should whilst walking, hugging, going arm in arm, jumping on their back for a piggy back (fun), sitting on their laps etc. This indirect sexual kino will get you comfortable with touching girls, until you can move onto girls you are interested in.
Also I find that I am more willing to do kino on girls I view and socially below me. SO the solution? Get more confident and believe you are socially superior.
What you shoudl do is practice on female friends of yours who you have little sexual interest in. Just basic things like puting your arm around their should whilst walking, hugging, going arm in arm, jumping on their back for a piggy back (fun), sitting on their laps etc. This indirect sexual kino will get you comfortable with touching girls, until you can move onto girls you are interested in.
Also I find that I am more willing to do kino on girls I view and socially below me. SO the solution? Get more confident and believe you are socially superior.
ariet
Don Juan
ROFL by hand eye coordination im mean when i do it
it feels akward
thanks i guess ill go practice on my pillow
jkz
it feels akward
thanks i guess ill go practice on my pillow
jkz
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
What would that do? Lol that's a funny idea...your pillow?! No, practice with girls...