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Crap at kino

ariet

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So im not confident with kino :mad:

my hand eye coordination kinda sux as well
 

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CaptainJ

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To get good at kino, you just have to do it alot, until it becomes second nature to you.

What you shoudl do is practice on female friends of yours who you have little sexual interest in. Just basic things like puting your arm around their should whilst walking, hugging, going arm in arm, jumping on their back for a piggy back (fun), sitting on their laps etc. This indirect sexual kino will get you comfortable with touching girls, until you can move onto girls you are interested in.

Also I find that I am more willing to do kino on girls I view and socially below me. SO the solution? Get more confident and believe you are socially superior.
 

RFish

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CaptainJ lay it out perfectly for you.

Start by practising.

And your comment shocked me, why do you need hand-eye coordination? You are not driving a car, plane or what. The fact you are worrying about this makes me worried.
 

ariet

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ROFL by hand eye coordination im mean when i do it

it feels akward
thanks i guess ill go practice on my pillow :mad:

jkz
 

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