"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Crap at kino

ariet

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So im not confident with kino :mad:

my hand eye coordination kinda sux as well
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CaptainJ

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To get good at kino, you just have to do it alot, until it becomes second nature to you.

What you shoudl do is practice on female friends of yours who you have little sexual interest in. Just basic things like puting your arm around their should whilst walking, hugging, going arm in arm, jumping on their back for a piggy back (fun), sitting on their laps etc. This indirect sexual kino will get you comfortable with touching girls, until you can move onto girls you are interested in.

Also I find that I am more willing to do kino on girls I view and socially below me. SO the solution? Get more confident and believe you are socially superior.
 

RFish

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CaptainJ lay it out perfectly for you.

Start by practising.

And your comment shocked me, why do you need hand-eye coordination? You are not driving a car, plane or what. The fact you are worrying about this makes me worried.
 

ariet

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ROFL by hand eye coordination im mean when i do it

it feels akward
thanks i guess ill go practice on my pillow :mad:

jkz
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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