ariet
Don Juan
So im not confident with kino 
my hand eye coordination kinda sux as well
my hand eye coordination kinda sux as well
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Crap at kino
- Thread starter ariet
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I've made a topic about this aswell so we're in the same boat, have a look at some of the responses it might help you.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=160491
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=160491
To get good at kino, you just have to do it alot, until it becomes second nature to you.
What you shoudl do is practice on female friends of yours who you have little sexual interest in. Just basic things like puting your arm around their should whilst walking, hugging, going arm in arm, jumping on their back for a piggy back (fun), sitting on their laps etc. This indirect sexual kino will get you comfortable with touching girls, until you can move onto girls you are interested in.
Also I find that I am more willing to do kino on girls I view and socially below me. SO the solution? Get more confident and believe you are socially superior.
What you shoudl do is practice on female friends of yours who you have little sexual interest in. Just basic things like puting your arm around their should whilst walking, hugging, going arm in arm, jumping on their back for a piggy back (fun), sitting on their laps etc. This indirect sexual kino will get you comfortable with touching girls, until you can move onto girls you are interested in.
Also I find that I am more willing to do kino on girls I view and socially below me. SO the solution? Get more confident and believe you are socially superior.
ariet
Don Juan
ROFL by hand eye coordination im mean when i do it
it feels akward
thanks i guess ill go practice on my pillow
jkz
it feels akward
thanks i guess ill go practice on my pillow
jkz
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
What would that do? Lol that's a funny idea...your pillow?! No, practice with girls...