"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Crap at kino

ariet

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So im not confident with kino :mad:

my hand eye coordination kinda sux as well
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CaptainJ

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To get good at kino, you just have to do it alot, until it becomes second nature to you.

What you shoudl do is practice on female friends of yours who you have little sexual interest in. Just basic things like puting your arm around their should whilst walking, hugging, going arm in arm, jumping on their back for a piggy back (fun), sitting on their laps etc. This indirect sexual kino will get you comfortable with touching girls, until you can move onto girls you are interested in.

Also I find that I am more willing to do kino on girls I view and socially below me. SO the solution? Get more confident and believe you are socially superior.
 

RFish

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CaptainJ lay it out perfectly for you.

Start by practising.

And your comment shocked me, why do you need hand-eye coordination? You are not driving a car, plane or what. The fact you are worrying about this makes me worried.
 

ariet

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ROFL by hand eye coordination im mean when i do it

it feels akward
thanks i guess ill go practice on my pillow :mad:

jkz
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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