MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Not surprised by this at all. In American culture, women are seen as the prize. In Russian culture, it's the exact opposite.MatureDJ said:
The claim made in the video is misleading. It is true that there are significantly more women than men in Russia...but only if you take into account people over 65. The average life expectancy for men and women in Russia is 64 and 76 years, respectively, so there is naturally a lot more old women around. According to wikipedia, the ratio for people in the 15-65 group is 0.92/1, which is not a huge difference. And I bet you that for people in their 20s and 30s, the ratio is close to 1:1.Who Dares Win said:In Russia women outnumber men, nothing else to explain, is said at the beginning.
I respectfully disagree, been clubbing everywhere in western europe since 2005 and still have to find a club with more girls than guys except few places in poland while the few times I've been in Belarus and Russia the 1:1 ration was the norm and quite often more girls than guys even after 2am.Bokanovsky said:The claim made in the video is misleading. It is true that there are significantly more women than men in Russia...but only if you take into account people over 65. The average life expectancy for men and women in Russia is 64 and 76 years, respectively, so there is naturally a lot more old women around. According to wikipedia, the ratio for people in the 15-65 group is 0.92/1, which is not a huge difference. And I bet you that for people in their 20s and 30s, the ratio is close to 1:1.
Like I said, it's all about culture.
Again, cultural differences. In North America, clubs are filled with horny, sexually frustrated dudes hoping to "get lucky". In Russia, guys don't need to go to clubs to get laid. That's why you don't have the sausage fest scene over there. Trust me, I know what I'm talking about. I lived in Russia for a couple of years.Who Dares Win said:I respectfully disagree, been clubbing everywhere in western europe since 2005 and still have to find a club with more girls than guys except few places in poland while the few times I've been in Belarus and Russia the 1:1 ration was the norm and quite often more girls than guys even after 2am.
Its not culture which shapes society but the other way around.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Okay, if the answer isn't what Bokanovsky said, why do women outnumber men in Russia? They haven't fought any more wars than we have in the US, less in fact.Who Dares Win said:I respectfully disagree, been clubbing everywhere in western europe since 2005 and still have to find a club with more girls than guys except few places in poland while the few times I've been in Belarus and Russia the 1:1 ration was the norm and quite often more girls than guys even after 2am..
In all honesty I have no idea, checked some sites for demographics which confirms what bokanowsky said regarding ratio (being them not unbalanced), yet what I saw with my own eyes remains.zekko said:Okay, if the answer isn't what Bokanovsky said, why do women outnumber men in Russia? They haven't fought any more wars than we have in the US, less in fact.
Just looking at the raw stats is a bit misleading. That there is pickup for women suggests that for (quality) men, it's a seller's market, for whatever reason, just as it is for women in the states.zekko said:Okay, if the answer isn't what Bokanovsky said, why do women outnumber men in Russia? They haven't fought any more wars than we have in the US, less in fact.
Nobody blinks when men pay for instructions on pretty much everything else , but paying to learn probably the most important and one of the hardest things they do in life somehow is... weird.zekko said:I can barely imagine men paying for them.
Similar classes in other parts of Asia too, although the non-beta part is optional.taiyu said:There's actually "pick up" classes here in Japan that are similar, but they're more like how to pick up a high income, non-beta males.
goundra said:there is no room for more than about 10% of men to be alpha. The rest have to settle for what they can get. You make up your mind which you are going to be, and go for it.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.