Soldier King
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Kinda kidding, but now people actually have a reason not to approach
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Anyone gonna still go for it?
Anyone gonna still go for it?
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
There will always be a reason not to approach if you dont approach. Most people dont do cold approaches anymore since everyone is online or social networking. It only works with people who would not neednl to go there to get a girl in the first place.Kinda kidding, but now people actually have a reason not to approach.
Anyone gonna still go for it?
Hold on wait, I just reread that, take that like away. If Ima die and not be able to be in contact with anyone, Ima take a hard pass on that girl unless she's my wife.Also who would pass a hot.chick even if she was infected? It does not effect yonger people as severely and there is less male competition if other guys are thinking like you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I think we all are gonna feel the pinch. Total lockdown of cities,concerts,sporting events. Heck xenophobia ,racism towards ethnicities ,inadequate quarantines and basically fear over fact. All to contain the virus too little too lateHold on wait, I just reread that, take that like away. If Ima die and not be able to be in contact with anyone, Ima take a hard pass on that girl unless she's my wife.
I'm trying to live!
Yeah, from a health perspective, it's more likely a girl, such as you are describing, could have an antibiotic resistant strain of STD, HIV, Herpes, HPVs, etc... and or have demonic spirits or are into weird sh1t like drinking blood, etc.... the fact is, you don't know who you are dealing with, what they are into, and what they have anyway. If you cared about your health then you would take the same type of precautions even if there was no coronavirus at all. Remember, you still had the seasonal flu before this hit, and a large number of people have died from that this year.Hold on wait, I just reread that, take that like away. If Ima die and not be able to be in contact with anyone, Ima take a hard pass on that girl unless she's my wife.
I'm trying to live!
That's interesting since the virus have hit Italy and Iran and China. Chinese are model minorities. Italians are white (although they weren't considered fully-white in the past, they are now). Iran had always had issues before the coronavirus since the missiles were launched a month ago after that drone assassination, but Persians look white too. When people say racism, it's usually anti-Black racism and contemptuous white privilege and anti-immigration from poorer brown-skinned people from Latin America, yet those places are least effected by this virus. It's all white or near-white countries and skin-colours.,racism towards ethnicities
Politicians are stirring anti - asian sentiment by calling the disease Wuhan coronavirus instead of just coronavirus or covid 19.That's interesting since the virus have hit Italy and Iran and China. Chinese are model minorities. Italians are white (although they weren't considered fully-white in the past, they are now). Iran had always had issues before the coronavirus since the missiles were launched a month ago after that drone assassination, but Persians look white too. When people say racism, it's usually anti-Black racism and contemptuous white privilege and anti-immigration from poorer brown-skinned people from Latin America, yet those places are least effected by this virus. It's all white or near-white countries and skin-colours.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Its an animal virus that got spread to humans.I heard it was created by a lab and used by the chinese government to create population control for it's country.
yeah there are tons of other corona virus that haven't infected humans yet. When they say Corona it is a family term of virusesreally?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I definately do. We shouldn't panic and we should let science do the workI see you are right I did some research, said it was in bats and other animals, still wonder why it is spreading to humans like this all of a sudden, don't you
I disagree on the fact its not the same thing. They are not victims of institutional racism and seem to be happy campers as far as fulfilling the American Dream is concerned. Truthfully, anyone associated with this disease gets shunned out. If you start coughing then people will start acting weird around you.Politicians are stirring anti - asian sentiment by calling the disease Wuhan coronavirus instead of just coronavirus or covid 19.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.