"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Corona Virus, finally a good reason to duck?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kinda kidding, but now people actually have a reason not to approach :p.

Anyone gonna still go for it?
There will always be a reason not to approach if you dont approach. Most people dont do cold approaches anymore since everyone is online or social networking. It only works with people who would not neednl to go there to get a girl in the first place.

Also who would pass a hot.chick even if she was infected? It does not effect yonger people as severely and there is less male competition if other guys are thinking like you.
 

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Also who would pass a hot.chick even if she was infected? It does not effect yonger people as severely and there is less male competition if other guys are thinking like you.
Hold on wait, I just reread that, take that like away. If Ima die and not be able to be in contact with anyone, Ima take a hard pass on that girl unless she's my wife.

I'm trying to live!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hold on wait, I just reread that, take that like away. If Ima die and not be able to be in contact with anyone, Ima take a hard pass on that girl unless she's my wife.

I'm trying to live!
I think we all are gonna feel the pinch. Total lockdown of cities,concerts,sporting events. Heck xenophobia ,racism towards ethnicities ,inadequate quarantines and basically fear over fact. All to contain the virus too little too late
 

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Hold on wait, I just reread that, take that like away. If Ima die and not be able to be in contact with anyone, Ima take a hard pass on that girl unless she's my wife.

I'm trying to live!
Yeah, from a health perspective, it's more likely a girl, such as you are describing, could have an antibiotic resistant strain of STD, HIV, Herpes, HPVs, etc... and or have demonic spirits or are into weird sh1t like drinking blood, etc.... the fact is, you don't know who you are dealing with, what they are into, and what they have anyway. If you cared about your health then you would take the same type of precautions even if there was no coronavirus at all. Remember, you still had the seasonal flu before this hit, and a large number of people have died from that this year.
 

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,racism towards ethnicities
That's interesting since the virus have hit Italy and Iran and China. Chinese are model minorities. Italians are white (although they weren't considered fully-white in the past, they are now). Iran had always had issues before the coronavirus since the missiles were launched a month ago after that drone assassination, but Persians look white too. When people say racism, it's usually anti-Black racism and contemptuous white privilege and anti-immigration from poorer brown-skinned people from Latin America, yet those places are least effected by this virus. It's all white or near-white countries and skin-colours.
 

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That's interesting since the virus have hit Italy and Iran and China. Chinese are model minorities. Italians are white (although they weren't considered fully-white in the past, they are now). Iran had always had issues before the coronavirus since the missiles were launched a month ago after that drone assassination, but Persians look white too. When people say racism, it's usually anti-Black racism and contemptuous white privilege and anti-immigration from poorer brown-skinned people from Latin America, yet those places are least effected by this virus. It's all white or near-white countries and skin-colours.
Politicians are stirring anti - asian sentiment by calling the disease Wuhan coronavirus instead of just coronavirus or covid 19.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I see you are right I did some research, said it was in bats and other animals, still wonder why it is spreading to humans like this all of a sudden, don't you
I definately do. We shouldn't panic and we should let science do the work
 

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Politicians are stirring anti - asian sentiment by calling the disease Wuhan coronavirus instead of just coronavirus or covid 19.
I disagree on the fact its not the same thing. They are not victims of institutional racism and seem to be happy campers as far as fulfilling the American Dream is concerned. Truthfully, anyone associated with this disease gets shunned out. If you start coughing then people will start acting weird around you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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