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Master Don Juan
Scientists define six traits that make a person ‘cool’ – and they transcend borders
Findings may help better understand role played by some traits in establishing social hierarchies
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Scientists define six traits that make a person ‘cool’ – and they transcend borders
Findings may help better understand role played by some traits in establishing social hierarchieswww.independent.co.uk
I believe coolness is a state of mind and aura. If whatever you’re doiing is keeping you calm, collected and happy, then you should definitely continue to do it.
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Master Don Juan
Scientists define six traits that make a person ‘cool’ – and they transcend borders
Findings may help better understand role played by some traits in establishing social hierarchies
Coolness is also bouncing back and finding your personal techniques whether it be physical or spiritual to comeback from negative states of mind. I don’t care if it’s meditation, prayer, lifting weights, reading a book, you gotta stay grounded at all time as a dude.
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One of the best ways to stay cool is to be content with your current lifestyle and to fill it up with gratitude and service to the community for that sense of fulfillment with inner game and getting involve in a higher calling other than yourself.