Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Scientists define six traits that make a person ‘cool’ – and they transcend borders
Findings may help better understand role played by some traits in establishing social hierarchies
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Cool
- Thread starter Hamurabimbi
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Scientists define six traits that make a person ‘cool’ – and they transcend borders
Findings may help better understand role played by some traits in establishing social hierarchieswww.independent.co.uk
I believe coolness is a state of mind and aura. If whatever you’re doiing is keeping you calm, collected and happy, then you should definitely continue to do it.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Scientists define six traits that make a person ‘cool’ – and they transcend borders
Findings may help better understand role played by some traits in establishing social hierarchies
Coolness is also bouncing back and finding your personal techniques whether it be physical or spiritual to comeback from negative states of mind. I don’t care if it’s meditation, prayer, lifting weights, reading a book, you gotta stay grounded at all time as a dude.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
One of the best ways to stay cool is to be content with your current lifestyle and to fill it up with gratitude and service to the community for that sense of fulfillment with inner game and getting involve in a higher calling other than yourself.