"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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Coolness is also bouncing back and finding your personal techniques whether it be physical or spiritual to comeback from negative states of mind. I don’t care if it’s meditation, prayer, lifting weights, reading a book, you gotta stay grounded at all time as a dude.
 

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One of the best ways to stay cool is to be content with your current lifestyle and to fill it up with gratitude and service to the community for that sense of fulfillment with inner game and getting involve in a higher calling other than yourself.
 
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