Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Scientists define six traits that make a person ‘cool’ – and they transcend borders
Findings may help better understand role played by some traits in establishing social hierarchies
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Cool
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Scientists define six traits that make a person ‘cool’ – and they transcend borders
Findings may help better understand role played by some traits in establishing social hierarchieswww.independent.co.uk
I believe coolness is a state of mind and aura. If whatever you’re doiing is keeping you calm, collected and happy, then you should definitely continue to do it.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Scientists define six traits that make a person ‘cool’ – and they transcend borders
Findings may help better understand role played by some traits in establishing social hierarchies
Coolness is also bouncing back and finding your personal techniques whether it be physical or spiritual to comeback from negative states of mind. I don’t care if it’s meditation, prayer, lifting weights, reading a book, you gotta stay grounded at all time as a dude.
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One of the best ways to stay cool is to be content with your current lifestyle and to fill it up with gratitude and service to the community for that sense of fulfillment with inner game and getting involve in a higher calling other than yourself.