Short and to the point, some of my easiest lays have been “come smoke weed with me” .. EASY way to get them to the house and weed makes women horny.. literally 0 cost lays, as I was gonna smoke weather they came or not.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Come smoke weed with me..
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Depends upon the woman. Some dont get horny just came to mooch free weed.
You need to start them off low and slow them down if they try to smoke too aggressively. There is a sweet spot that makes them extremely horny. And, like the OP, “come smoke at my spot” has been really successful for me - they don’t see it as Netflix and chill because you can’t really smoke outside your place.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
soulforge
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Yeh u could end up becoming the regular weed guy, whose sofa she falls asleep on, once she is too stoned.
I find panties drop quicker, with alcohol involved.
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Especially wine in my experience. Holy crap, that stuff is like a magic potion.
I think alcohol increases testosterone levels in women-hence the horniness.
Murk
Master Don Juan
Weed just makes me tired, girls I’ve smoked weed with have fallen asleep.
If your tolerance is low and you’re not daily or weekly smoking (me), this is a bad idea and alcohol is better.
I used to buy and smoke weed by the half ounce back in my uni days, that boat hasn’t sailed I stay away from weed now, it kills my zest for life.
If your tolerance is low and you’re not daily or weekly smoking (me), this is a bad idea and alcohol is better.
I used to buy and smoke weed by the half ounce back in my uni days, that boat hasn’t sailed I stay away from weed now, it kills my zest for life.