"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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College time...Relax people

Eternal

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Earlier today, I, and many people, started college classes. I have the honor of being in my second year, while others are in thier first. So I share a small, tiny piece of advice for those of you freshyman looking to score with women...

CALM THE FUCK DOWN!

"Oh my god, I'm in class! Do I get her number the first day? Do I talk to a lot of people? Do I even talk to people?"

Geesh, sound like a bunch of whiny AFC's. College is no different than High School.

You know what, scratch that. You WILL see the people around during the day, unlike High School. So chill. You don't need to run around the first day with a rod up your ass talking to people, hitting on chicks, and scoring numbers. You have time!

Now go to sleep, wake up tomorrow and RELAX!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Very good post, I was freaking out -- especially after breaking up with my g/f when getting back to school, thinking my game was off, etc. because I didn't have chicks hanging off me non-stop only a week back... then I realized that I had already built a pretty strong connection with a few girls on campus already and while things hadn't progressed past that, its only a few days in!

College life is great though. :D
 

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Originally posted by Homeslice
Very good post, I was freaking out -- especially after breaking up with my g/f when getting back to school, thinking my game was off, etc. because I didn't have chicks hanging off me non-stop only a week back... then I realized that I had already built a pretty strong connection with a few girls on campus already and while things hadn't progressed past that, its only a few days in!

College life is great though. :D
Yeah, people tend to wonder why they didn't get laid in 10 minutes of meeting the girl.
 

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I'd like to add this...

People wonder "what is the best way to meet people?"

GO OUT AND DO SOMETHING!

I play pool. I made 5 new friends today, 1 through a friend from last year. I made 4 new friends in my dorm. I already know a lot of people in here. I made 1 new friend in the cafe. I knew people in there. I know girls. I know guys.

I know I'm bragging, but maybe you'll see this and go "shut up crazykid, watch me go out and get MORE friends and MORE females!" Go you. Just shut up and go out and do something instead of whining about not being able to find people.

If people seem unfriendly, think. "Am I looking away or down? Do I look pissed? Do they nod or say 'hey' silently and I might not notice?" When in doubt...SAY HI! Simple, yet effective. If you can not say "hi" to ATLEAST 25 people tomorrow, go away off this site. You don't belong here then.
 

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Yeah there are a lot of whiny threads cluttering the board, everyone must have a whiny thread quota :D.

I had put up 2 threads myself in the past, now i think its better to just ask people about my queries over the messenger.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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