"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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College time...Relax people

Eternal

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Earlier today, I, and many people, started college classes. I have the honor of being in my second year, while others are in thier first. So I share a small, tiny piece of advice for those of you freshyman looking to score with women...

CALM THE FUCK DOWN!

"Oh my god, I'm in class! Do I get her number the first day? Do I talk to a lot of people? Do I even talk to people?"

Geesh, sound like a bunch of whiny AFC's. College is no different than High School.

You know what, scratch that. You WILL see the people around during the day, unlike High School. So chill. You don't need to run around the first day with a rod up your ass talking to people, hitting on chicks, and scoring numbers. You have time!

Now go to sleep, wake up tomorrow and RELAX!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Very good post, I was freaking out -- especially after breaking up with my g/f when getting back to school, thinking my game was off, etc. because I didn't have chicks hanging off me non-stop only a week back... then I realized that I had already built a pretty strong connection with a few girls on campus already and while things hadn't progressed past that, its only a few days in!

College life is great though. :D
 

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Originally posted by Homeslice
Very good post, I was freaking out -- especially after breaking up with my g/f when getting back to school, thinking my game was off, etc. because I didn't have chicks hanging off me non-stop only a week back... then I realized that I had already built a pretty strong connection with a few girls on campus already and while things hadn't progressed past that, its only a few days in!

College life is great though. :D
Yeah, people tend to wonder why they didn't get laid in 10 minutes of meeting the girl.
 

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I'd like to add this...

People wonder "what is the best way to meet people?"

GO OUT AND DO SOMETHING!

I play pool. I made 5 new friends today, 1 through a friend from last year. I made 4 new friends in my dorm. I already know a lot of people in here. I made 1 new friend in the cafe. I knew people in there. I know girls. I know guys.

I know I'm bragging, but maybe you'll see this and go "shut up crazykid, watch me go out and get MORE friends and MORE females!" Go you. Just shut up and go out and do something instead of whining about not being able to find people.

If people seem unfriendly, think. "Am I looking away or down? Do I look pissed? Do they nod or say 'hey' silently and I might not notice?" When in doubt...SAY HI! Simple, yet effective. If you can not say "hi" to ATLEAST 25 people tomorrow, go away off this site. You don't belong here then.
 

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Yeah there are a lot of whiny threads cluttering the board, everyone must have a whiny thread quota :D.

I had put up 2 threads myself in the past, now i think its better to just ask people about my queries over the messenger.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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