"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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College time...Relax people

Eternal

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Earlier today, I, and many people, started college classes. I have the honor of being in my second year, while others are in thier first. So I share a small, tiny piece of advice for those of you freshyman looking to score with women...

CALM THE FUCK DOWN!

"Oh my god, I'm in class! Do I get her number the first day? Do I talk to a lot of people? Do I even talk to people?"

Geesh, sound like a bunch of whiny AFC's. College is no different than High School.

You know what, scratch that. You WILL see the people around during the day, unlike High School. So chill. You don't need to run around the first day with a rod up your ass talking to people, hitting on chicks, and scoring numbers. You have time!

Now go to sleep, wake up tomorrow and RELAX!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Very good post, I was freaking out -- especially after breaking up with my g/f when getting back to school, thinking my game was off, etc. because I didn't have chicks hanging off me non-stop only a week back... then I realized that I had already built a pretty strong connection with a few girls on campus already and while things hadn't progressed past that, its only a few days in!

College life is great though. :D
 

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Originally posted by Homeslice
Very good post, I was freaking out -- especially after breaking up with my g/f when getting back to school, thinking my game was off, etc. because I didn't have chicks hanging off me non-stop only a week back... then I realized that I had already built a pretty strong connection with a few girls on campus already and while things hadn't progressed past that, its only a few days in!

College life is great though. :D
Yeah, people tend to wonder why they didn't get laid in 10 minutes of meeting the girl.
 

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I'd like to add this...

People wonder "what is the best way to meet people?"

GO OUT AND DO SOMETHING!

I play pool. I made 5 new friends today, 1 through a friend from last year. I made 4 new friends in my dorm. I already know a lot of people in here. I made 1 new friend in the cafe. I knew people in there. I know girls. I know guys.

I know I'm bragging, but maybe you'll see this and go "shut up crazykid, watch me go out and get MORE friends and MORE females!" Go you. Just shut up and go out and do something instead of whining about not being able to find people.

If people seem unfriendly, think. "Am I looking away or down? Do I look pissed? Do they nod or say 'hey' silently and I might not notice?" When in doubt...SAY HI! Simple, yet effective. If you can not say "hi" to ATLEAST 25 people tomorrow, go away off this site. You don't belong here then.
 

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Yeah there are a lot of whiny threads cluttering the board, everyone must have a whiny thread quota :D.

I had put up 2 threads myself in the past, now i think its better to just ask people about my queries over the messenger.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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