"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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College time...Relax people

Eternal

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Earlier today, I, and many people, started college classes. I have the honor of being in my second year, while others are in thier first. So I share a small, tiny piece of advice for those of you freshyman looking to score with women...

CALM THE FUCK DOWN!

"Oh my god, I'm in class! Do I get her number the first day? Do I talk to a lot of people? Do I even talk to people?"

Geesh, sound like a bunch of whiny AFC's. College is no different than High School.

You know what, scratch that. You WILL see the people around during the day, unlike High School. So chill. You don't need to run around the first day with a rod up your ass talking to people, hitting on chicks, and scoring numbers. You have time!

Now go to sleep, wake up tomorrow and RELAX!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Very good post, I was freaking out -- especially after breaking up with my g/f when getting back to school, thinking my game was off, etc. because I didn't have chicks hanging off me non-stop only a week back... then I realized that I had already built a pretty strong connection with a few girls on campus already and while things hadn't progressed past that, its only a few days in!

College life is great though. :D
 

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Originally posted by Homeslice
Very good post, I was freaking out -- especially after breaking up with my g/f when getting back to school, thinking my game was off, etc. because I didn't have chicks hanging off me non-stop only a week back... then I realized that I had already built a pretty strong connection with a few girls on campus already and while things hadn't progressed past that, its only a few days in!

College life is great though. :D
Yeah, people tend to wonder why they didn't get laid in 10 minutes of meeting the girl.
 

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I'd like to add this...

People wonder "what is the best way to meet people?"

GO OUT AND DO SOMETHING!

I play pool. I made 5 new friends today, 1 through a friend from last year. I made 4 new friends in my dorm. I already know a lot of people in here. I made 1 new friend in the cafe. I knew people in there. I know girls. I know guys.

I know I'm bragging, but maybe you'll see this and go "shut up crazykid, watch me go out and get MORE friends and MORE females!" Go you. Just shut up and go out and do something instead of whining about not being able to find people.

If people seem unfriendly, think. "Am I looking away or down? Do I look pissed? Do they nod or say 'hey' silently and I might not notice?" When in doubt...SAY HI! Simple, yet effective. If you can not say "hi" to ATLEAST 25 people tomorrow, go away off this site. You don't belong here then.
 

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Yeah there are a lot of whiny threads cluttering the board, everyone must have a whiny thread quota :D.

I had put up 2 threads myself in the past, now i think its better to just ask people about my queries over the messenger.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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