"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thechosenone2190

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i agree. it's not the greatest opener, but most of my targets were MOVING/walking/going somewhere. how else do you get their attention? it's hard to make someone stop in their tracks by saying "hi" or "great weather huh?". also, out of personal preference, i dont like beating around the bush. "your cute" is very direct and let's her know my intentions right off the bat. it's just my personal preference

yes i did all those approaches in the same day. it was friday afternoon, and the weather was GORGEOUS 71 degrees. there was a cesspool of hb's outside. i also don't have class on fridays. i know i know. but once the #'s start coming in, ill be in a really good shape
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cablecow15

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If I ever notice anything unique about their clothing , I try to compliment them on it ,like "Hey nice shoes , you have a nice sense of style" of something along those lines , pretty girls get compliments on their appearance all the time , you want to stand out a lil more ,most that are attractive take their clothing very serious lol so its a good place to start if you cant find anything to talk about

P.s im far from a pro at this , im just repeating what ive read from others
 

cablecow15

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Deicide said:
Where do you live at? If you're near Tennessee, you can approach with me sometime. We're both entry-level aspiring PUA's, and we experience similar levels of inconsistency that go with attaining comfortableness in a cold approach.
Im in tennessee , I moved here not to long ago
 

cablecow15

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aww come on dude dont tell me you stopped , this thread motivated to do my first approach in months
 

thechosenone2190

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@cablecow15 lol what! sorry for the long hiatus. i had to get my life in order. im very flattered though, especially since if i'm FAR from being someone whose experience can "motivate" others. it means a lot to me though that i actually motivated you to do your first approach. now im feeling motivated too no homo
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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