"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thechosenone2190

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i agree. it's not the greatest opener, but most of my targets were MOVING/walking/going somewhere. how else do you get their attention? it's hard to make someone stop in their tracks by saying "hi" or "great weather huh?". also, out of personal preference, i dont like beating around the bush. "your cute" is very direct and let's her know my intentions right off the bat. it's just my personal preference

yes i did all those approaches in the same day. it was friday afternoon, and the weather was GORGEOUS 71 degrees. there was a cesspool of hb's outside. i also don't have class on fridays. i know i know. but once the #'s start coming in, ill be in a really good shape
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cablecow15

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If I ever notice anything unique about their clothing , I try to compliment them on it ,like "Hey nice shoes , you have a nice sense of style" of something along those lines , pretty girls get compliments on their appearance all the time , you want to stand out a lil more ,most that are attractive take their clothing very serious lol so its a good place to start if you cant find anything to talk about

P.s im far from a pro at this , im just repeating what ive read from others
 

cablecow15

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Deicide said:
Where do you live at? If you're near Tennessee, you can approach with me sometime. We're both entry-level aspiring PUA's, and we experience similar levels of inconsistency that go with attaining comfortableness in a cold approach.
Im in tennessee , I moved here not to long ago
 

cablecow15

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aww come on dude dont tell me you stopped , this thread motivated to do my first approach in months
 

thechosenone2190

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@cablecow15 lol what! sorry for the long hiatus. i had to get my life in order. im very flattered though, especially since if i'm FAR from being someone whose experience can "motivate" others. it means a lot to me though that i actually motivated you to do your first approach. now im feeling motivated too no homo
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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