Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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thechosenone2190

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i agree. it's not the greatest opener, but most of my targets were MOVING/walking/going somewhere. how else do you get their attention? it's hard to make someone stop in their tracks by saying "hi" or "great weather huh?". also, out of personal preference, i dont like beating around the bush. "your cute" is very direct and let's her know my intentions right off the bat. it's just my personal preference

yes i did all those approaches in the same day. it was friday afternoon, and the weather was GORGEOUS 71 degrees. there was a cesspool of hb's outside. i also don't have class on fridays. i know i know. but once the #'s start coming in, ill be in a really good shape
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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cablecow15

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If I ever notice anything unique about their clothing , I try to compliment them on it ,like "Hey nice shoes , you have a nice sense of style" of something along those lines , pretty girls get compliments on their appearance all the time , you want to stand out a lil more ,most that are attractive take their clothing very serious lol so its a good place to start if you cant find anything to talk about

P.s im far from a pro at this , im just repeating what ive read from others
 

cablecow15

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Deicide said:
Where do you live at? If you're near Tennessee, you can approach with me sometime. We're both entry-level aspiring PUA's, and we experience similar levels of inconsistency that go with attaining comfortableness in a cold approach.
Im in tennessee , I moved here not to long ago
 

cablecow15

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aww come on dude dont tell me you stopped , this thread motivated to do my first approach in months
 

thechosenone2190

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@cablecow15 lol what! sorry for the long hiatus. i had to get my life in order. im very flattered though, especially since if i'm FAR from being someone whose experience can "motivate" others. it means a lot to me though that i actually motivated you to do your first approach. now im feeling motivated too no homo
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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