Ok, well every so often my church does an activity with another church. This sunday we're going skating with that other church's youth group. I didn't go last time, but my friends told me there are only 3 girls over 6 on the hb scale. I've never met these girls before, but i am really funny. Any advice on how to ease into conversation with these girls???
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Cold approach
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
T-Roy
Don Juan
Skate up too one and ask her if she is any good at skating.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Don't be lame with it though....joke around, C&F, LOT'S of kino.T-Roy said:Skate up too one and ask her if she is any good at skating.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonAlan456
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