Ok, well every so often my church does an activity with another church. This sunday we're going skating with that other church's youth group. I didn't go last time, but my friends told me there are only 3 girls over 6 on the hb scale. I've never met these girls before, but i am really funny. Any advice on how to ease into conversation with these girls???
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Cold approach
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
T-Roy
Don Juan
Skate up too one and ask her if she is any good at skating.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Don't be lame with it though....joke around, C&F, LOT'S of kino.T-Roy said:Skate up too one and ask her if she is any good at skating.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DonAlan456
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