Ok, well every so often my church does an activity with another church. This sunday we're going skating with that other church's youth group. I didn't go last time, but my friends told me there are only 3 girls over 6 on the hb scale. I've never met these girls before, but i am really funny. Any advice on how to ease into conversation with these girls???
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Cold approach
- Thread starter Jokerlsk
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
T-Roy
Don Juan
Skate up too one and ask her if she is any good at skating.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Don't be lame with it though....joke around, C&F, LOT'S of kino.T-Roy said:Skate up too one and ask her if she is any good at skating.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonAlan456
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