Ok, well every so often my church does an activity with another church. This sunday we're going skating with that other church's youth group. I didn't go last time, but my friends told me there are only 3 girls over 6 on the hb scale. I've never met these girls before, but i am really funny. Any advice on how to ease into conversation with these girls???
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Cold approach
- Thread starter Jokerlsk
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
T-Roy
Don Juan
Skate up too one and ask her if she is any good at skating.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Don't be lame with it though....joke around, C&F, LOT'S of kino.T-Roy said:Skate up too one and ask her if she is any good at skating.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonAlan456
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