Ok, well every so often my church does an activity with another church. This sunday we're going skating with that other church's youth group. I didn't go last time, but my friends told me there are only 3 girls over 6 on the hb scale. I've never met these girls before, but i am really funny. Any advice on how to ease into conversation with these girls???
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Cold approach
- Thread starter Jokerlsk
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
T-Roy
Don Juan
Skate up too one and ask her if she is any good at skating.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Don't be lame with it though....joke around, C&F, LOT'S of kino.T-Roy said:Skate up too one and ask her if she is any good at skating.
If she says yes you ask her for tips and pretend to be bad but gradually getting better. Commenting on how great a teacher she is etc. etc. (I posted a tip called Teacher Teacher about this topic actually.)
If she says no, you tell her you'll give her tips. Now with this you can use too your advantage two choice moves I just thought up. XD
Number one. You could use Kino. Lightly grab her shoulders and "Demonstrate" the proper method for skating. You could also try her hips a little later on.
Number two. You could say that she needs too catch you first and skate of just in front of her, and keep staying just out of reach for a little while. Then skate around behind her and take her hand, and say something like. "Looks like ya caught me." This way you can start holding her hand and looking flirty at the same time. I hope those help.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DonAlan456
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