"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Obsidian

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I don't think you're supposed to get cumulative points based on your different hobbies, although that was a bit unclear.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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j_syrinate

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cola said:
Residence
Have your own house +3
Have your own aparment +2
I would say owning a house or apartment should be equal depending on where you live; for example, in a major/good size city with a luxury apartment in a densely populated area definitely outshines a house in the suburbs.
 

El Payaso

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Introvert shouldn't be a negative.
 

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11...

Although at times I am extrovert and at times introverted.

Good thing I am sporty, musically minded and artistic in my hobbies. :)
 

Solomon

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Obsidian said:
Social Skills
Athleticism
Bravery
Imagination
Money
Beauty

These are the things women care about in a man, in that order.
Meh I disagree

Athleticism
Status
Beauty
Social skills

women could give a fukless about imagination
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wisconsin144

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I'm a 6. Mostly because I'm 17 pre-college (Making like 9$/hr) after I'll be making around 160,000. And live with parents cause I'm 17 lol.
 

old_skoolr

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I scored -1 lol

Awesome!!!
 
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cola said:
@daddy what's your score?
Dunno.

I can score more on:

1. Physique
2. Social circle and skills
3. House ( on the way to purchasing home )
4. More opulent car
5. More fashionable clothing and opulent items

Then I will have way more SMV than I'd know what to do with.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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icantgetlaid

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No wonder I do so ****ty with girls:

Income: +2 ($80K in a city with $25K average)
Residence: +2 (one of the best apartment in the city)
Social Circle: -1 (in a new city and not very social -- got two things working against me here)
Personality: -1 (introvert big time)
Aesthetics: -3 (5'11 205lbs -- about 25 lbs over -- but i get compliments on my looks but still considerably fat/overweight)
Hobbies: -1 (couldn't find an option for getting drunk and ****ing ugly sluts but thought it was the same)

Total: -2

I think "fashion/style" should be a big one as well as "car" and even intelligence but to a far less degree (more points for how much you spend on clothes, style, etc. and more points the more expensive your car is).
 

In2theGame

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Yearly Income: +3

Residence: +2

Social Circle: +2

Aesthetics: +3

Personality: +1

Hobbies: +1

I'll add an extra +1 for above average c*ck lol

Lucky *13*
 

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According to the SMV, someone like George Sodini, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2009_Collier_Township_shooting,
would have a high SMV value.

This guy owned his own home, did not live with his parents, was independent,
had a good job, and probably would score very well on this scale.

Maybe you want a SMV scale that would't put George Sodini high on the SMV, lol!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cola

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Alexandar said:
is that what that was? ill take it as a good thing
Wasnt validation attempt. Id say your face is slightly above average. Would do you good to get ripped.

At guys with scores like -3 -2, i consider myself a slacker(correlating my potential vs status in life) and i got a 10. Wtf have you guys been doing with your life over the years?

Are you not working out?
Why are you not living on your own?
Why are you not mingling with people?
Why dont you have any cool hobbies?
Why are you making so little money?
All these things are more important than pursuing girls and if you focus on them exclusively youll find girls will come.
 

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This is the stupidest thing I have ever seen in my life...

No offense. Thrill seeker being higher than musically inclined, what about the ladies that love music. Theres ladies that love guys who play video games, tough times fall on people and they might have to move back in with their parents. I know 25 year olds who make minimum wage (less than 20k a year) who get girls on a daily basis. Nobody should take this seriously...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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