"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Cola's SMV scale. Determine your SMV with my system
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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I would say owning a house or apartment should be equal depending on where you live; for example, in a major/good size city with a luxury apartment in a densely populated area definitely outshines a house in the suburbs.cola said:
Solomon
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Meh I disagreeObsidian said:
Athleticism
Status
Beauty
Social skills
women could give a fukless about imagination
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Wisconsin144
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old_skoolr
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Awesome!!!
DaddyLongShanks
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Dunno.cola said:
I can score more on:
1. Physique
2. Social circle and skills
3. House ( on the way to purchasing home )
4. More opulent car
5. More fashionable clothing and opulent items
Then I will have way more SMV than I'd know what to do with.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
icantgetlaid
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Income: +2 ($80K in a city with $25K average)
Residence: +2 (one of the best apartment in the city)
Social Circle: -1 (in a new city and not very social -- got two things working against me here)
Personality: -1 (introvert big time)
Aesthetics: -3 (5'11 205lbs -- about 25 lbs over -- but i get compliments on my looks but still considerably fat/overweight)
Hobbies: -1 (couldn't find an option for getting drunk and ****ing ugly sluts but thought it was the same)
Total: -2
I think "fashion/style" should be a big one as well as "car" and even intelligence but to a far less degree (more points for how much you spend on clothes, style, etc. and more points the more expensive your car is).
In2theGame
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Residence: +2
Social Circle: +2
Aesthetics: +3
Personality: +1
Hobbies: +1
I'll add an extra +1 for above average c*ck lol
Lucky *13*
corrector
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would have a high SMV value.
This guy owned his own home, did not live with his parents, was independent,
had a good job, and probably would score very well on this scale.
Maybe you want a SMV scale that would't put George Sodini high on the SMV, lol!
cola said:
lol, and mine? if you can ignore the fact im completely trashed in the second pic haha
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Wasnt validation attempt. Id say your face is slightly above average. Would do you good to get ripped.Alexandar said:
At guys with scores like -3 -2, i consider myself a slacker(correlating my potential vs status in life) and i got a 10. Wtf have you guys been doing with your life over the years?
Are you not working out?
Why are you not living on your own?
Why are you not mingling with people?
Why dont you have any cool hobbies?
Why are you making so little money?
All these things are more important than pursuing girls and if you focus on them exclusively youll find girls will come.
JoesphBrown
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No offense. Thrill seeker being higher than musically inclined, what about the ladies that love music. Theres ladies that love guys who play video games, tough times fall on people and they might have to move back in with their parents. I know 25 year olds who make minimum wage (less than 20k a year) who get girls on a daily basis. Nobody should take this seriously...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.