"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cola

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JoesphBrown said:
This is the stupidest thing I have ever seen in my life...

No offense. Thrill seeker being higher than musically inclined, what about the ladies that love music. Theres ladies that love guys who play video games, tough times fall on people and they might have to move back in with their parents. I know 25 year olds who make minimum wage (less than 20k a year) who get girls on a daily basis. Nobody should take this seriously...
.. Yes there are broke 25 year old who make minimum wage and get girls.. but i bet they look good, have cool hobbies, are very charming. But are the girls they are getting quality? And dont mistake cute for quality. Do they have college degrees? (The girls), are they nuts? Do they have their own place? Daddy issues? You dont know.

As far as hobbies, generally speaking (there's exceptions to every rule) what would make a girl swoon more? Watching her boyfriend win an amateur mma fight, or watching him play twinkle twinkle little star on a flute?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alexandar

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cola, im vibing with your words, listen to the man kids. what he said should be super obvious.
 

3agle 3yes

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Obsidian said:
Social Circle +2
Personality -1
Please explain how it is possible to have many connections and friends yet be an introvert?
 

hockeyfreak79

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3agle 3yes said:
Please explain how it is possible to have many connections and friends yet be an introvert?
It's pretty rare to be 100% true introvert. I thought I was for some time but I lean more towards the middle which is Ambivert. That may be the case for Obsi. I have multiple groups of friends, my main group is most intro/ambi with a couple extros.

11+ motorcyle +1? = 12

Yay what did I win!?

I disagree with extro/intro ratings, aloofness comes naturally for intro side.
 
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