"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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From our friends who have internalized the fact that "it's over" for them:

You are going on incel site boards and posting threads from there on this site for discussion?
 

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You are going on incel site boards and posting threads from there on this site for discussion?
Yes, when the thread has relevance. I would tend to think that Tinder stories fit in this forum; the fact that I got it from the Incels is irrelevant.
 

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From our friends who have internalized the fact that "it's over" for them:

you have account on incels.co?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You are going on incel site boards and posting threads from there on this site for discussion?
The source of a fact or an information is not relevant as long as the information holds ground.

The only people bashing the source cause they dont like the message its usually leftists who dislike stats hidden from mainstream media and published from minor ones.

The average guy nowdays doesnt get laid, which basically makes him an incel wheter he accepts that label or not.
 

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Those who complain the most are the ones that get the worst results. That could be from lack of trying, refusing to change and alter their own strategies for successful results and also those people who sit on their hands and take the magic pill to get a result that takes work and effort.

I also find that a positive attitude is the first self controlled characteristic that unsuccessful people in life severely lack.
Another GG quote that transcends the original thread it was posted in.

^ This is how I feel about incels.

Life sucks sometimes. There is imbalance. This is nothing new, and it's not going to change. And there are plenty of extreme and less extreme examples in society that people can find to support their sad narratives. So what... Make a change or get what you've always gotten.

Wah wah wah. Incels piss me off.
 

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In china you can get a discount on health insurance if you walk a certain amount per day.

You have to verify that you walk by putting an app on your phone that counts your daily steps.

Naturally, some guy created a machine that simulates walking, so people can fake it.

It would seem easy enough to augment that machine to auto-swipe on qualified targets.

The whole thing could be automated, and you'd only be alerted when somebody swiped back.

I honestly don't see what the problem is.

Dating is a numbers game, is it not?

So a lady figures out how to play the numbers game more effectively, and everybody gets bent out of shape.

What's the interest of this article?

The actual numbers?

The ratio?

That it took a woman a while to find a match?

That she rejected so many guys?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whether it’s automated or manual, she only went on dates with 99.983 percentile guys.

Obviously that’s her choice. More power to her.

But the lesson for your typical Tinder user guy is...

(Too obvious to say)
Wait what? They said that we need more game and all will be ours, no matter how you look or whats your job and status the almighty game will do.
 

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Yes, when the thread has relevance. I would tend to think that Tinder stories fit in this forum; the fact that I got it from the Incels is irrelevant.
Why should I care of one girl on Tinder does with her profile? Do you expect her to go out with 30,000 guys? Even if she selected
100 guys that's still 29,900 she rejected? Would that make anyone feel better? What about this type of information is new that we haven't already heard before?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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