"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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From our friends who have internalized the fact that "it's over" for them:

You are going on incel site boards and posting threads from there on this site for discussion?
 

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You are going on incel site boards and posting threads from there on this site for discussion?
Yes, when the thread has relevance. I would tend to think that Tinder stories fit in this forum; the fact that I got it from the Incels is irrelevant.
 

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From our friends who have internalized the fact that "it's over" for them:

you have account on incels.co?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You are going on incel site boards and posting threads from there on this site for discussion?
The source of a fact or an information is not relevant as long as the information holds ground.

The only people bashing the source cause they dont like the message its usually leftists who dislike stats hidden from mainstream media and published from minor ones.

The average guy nowdays doesnt get laid, which basically makes him an incel wheter he accepts that label or not.
 

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Those who complain the most are the ones that get the worst results. That could be from lack of trying, refusing to change and alter their own strategies for successful results and also those people who sit on their hands and take the magic pill to get a result that takes work and effort.

I also find that a positive attitude is the first self controlled characteristic that unsuccessful people in life severely lack.
Another GG quote that transcends the original thread it was posted in.

^ This is how I feel about incels.

Life sucks sometimes. There is imbalance. This is nothing new, and it's not going to change. And there are plenty of extreme and less extreme examples in society that people can find to support their sad narratives. So what... Make a change or get what you've always gotten.

Wah wah wah. Incels piss me off.
 

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In china you can get a discount on health insurance if you walk a certain amount per day.

You have to verify that you walk by putting an app on your phone that counts your daily steps.

Naturally, some guy created a machine that simulates walking, so people can fake it.

It would seem easy enough to augment that machine to auto-swipe on qualified targets.

The whole thing could be automated, and you'd only be alerted when somebody swiped back.

I honestly don't see what the problem is.

Dating is a numbers game, is it not?

So a lady figures out how to play the numbers game more effectively, and everybody gets bent out of shape.

What's the interest of this article?

The actual numbers?

The ratio?

That it took a woman a while to find a match?

That she rejected so many guys?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whether it’s automated or manual, she only went on dates with 99.983 percentile guys.

Obviously that’s her choice. More power to her.

But the lesson for your typical Tinder user guy is...

(Too obvious to say)
Wait what? They said that we need more game and all will be ours, no matter how you look or whats your job and status the almighty game will do.
 

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Yes, when the thread has relevance. I would tend to think that Tinder stories fit in this forum; the fact that I got it from the Incels is irrelevant.
Why should I care of one girl on Tinder does with her profile? Do you expect her to go out with 30,000 guys? Even if she selected
100 guys that's still 29,900 she rejected? Would that make anyone feel better? What about this type of information is new that we haven't already heard before?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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