"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Clubbing advice needed

OneNine

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Hey,

I've decided after a long while spent avoiding clubs and dancing to get back out there again, but I've developed massive (stupid I know) anxieties over it. So, even though this is a little newbie 101, any words of encouragement or advice for what to do if I go into paranoid mode and try and leave or even for how to enjoy myself? The point of tomorrow night for me is to try and get comfortable at that kind of environment again, seeing as how that's the main place for sarging at university. I'm going to be with a friend and people I know, so there's a plus in terms of support.

Thanks,
OneNine.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ZenGodMod

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I've stopped clubs, always end up with the most questionable women.

Easiest dam thing to do, find a friend who loves clubbing and go with him just for warm ups.

Just be there for starters. The rest will come back.
 

Sir I

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rofl :D I'm a bartender at a club. there is nothing easier than a club even if you have anxieties. it's all about not caring just having fun enjoying yourself DO NOT TALK TO MUCH. and basicly go for it. but as ZenGodMod said, it's a weird thing but you do most of the time end up with a questionable girl.

do not stress the deal enjoy yourself make contact do not even think about her reaction and at the least get a good laugh out of it.
 

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Sir I said:
rofl :D I'm a bartender at a club. there is nothing easier than a club even if you have anxieties. it's all about not caring just having fun enjoying yourself DO NOT TALK TO MUCH. and basicly go for it. but as ZenGodMod said, it's a weird thing but you do most of the time end up with a questionable girl.

do not stress the deal enjoy yourself make contact do not even think about her reaction and at the least get a good laugh out of it.
Great advice..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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